Kindness

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 One of the best ways to deal with ataxia is being kind to others.

Our troubles are visible, but many people suffer from things we cannot see.  So kindness is essential and is like a boomerang.  It comes back to you.

When I was a professor in Boulder, I had a student who had total spinal fusion and a disabled parking decal.  She would get the filthiest looks.  Walking short distances caused her extreme pain.  I learned from her that you can’t see everything.  So be kind!



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